To wrap it up: the benefits of not belonging are ultimate freedom, less ingroup preference which could lead to more universal love, and self-actualization above conformity.

当一个局外人好处是终极由，减少可能导致更多普遍爱内在偏好，以及超越从众实现。

And so I respect it but to me, the definition is way too wide ranging for it to be meaningful outside of that specific ingroup in the culture.

所以尊重它，对来说，这个定义太广泛了，在特定内在群体之外没有意义。

Either way, when self-interest succeeds in wrecking the collective interest by, say, depleting some limited resource, it becomes easy to start viewing our neighbors as competitors, taking us right back to the ingroup vs.

无论哪种方式， 当个人利益成功地破坏了集体利益，比如说，耗尽了一些有限资源时， 们就很容易开始将们邻居视为竞争对手， 把们带回到内群体与群体之间。